It has taken 16 years of marriage to finally come to terms with the fact that my wife has no sexual interest in me. I’m not sure if this is a phase for me or a new way of life, but I’ve stopped asking or expecting or hoping or even being playful.
Obviously, I’m a slow learner. I’ve spent the last 5 months giving sex in our marriage ponder to God, and this is where He left me. Not depressed about it, just with the realization that it’s not important to her, so it’s time to start putting myself aside and serve my wife in other ways.